FOR SINGLES: How Lovers Change Their Voices
You might notice that when you are in love and in an intimate relationship with someone your voice changes subtly. But did you know that others are able to detect this too? In a new study from Susan...
View ArticleFOR COUPLES: Kissing More Important Than Sex
You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince (or princess) and now science shows us why. All primates practice some form of kissing but only humans kiss with such passion and frequency....
View ArticleFOR MEN: Her Face Predicts Relationship Length
We all know that more women look attractive to men when they are wear “beer glasses,” but did you know that the women’s faces may indicate which kind of relationship you are in for. A study out of the...
View ArticleFOR SINGLES: Four Things To Say on a First Date
It’s hard enough to find a date, but let’s face it, first dates themselves can be tough. With two relative strangers attempting to play the person they wish they were, first dates can be artificial...
View ArticleFOR MEN: Why Texts Make Sex Feel So Awkward
Courtship rituals have clearly changed. And there are two big differences today than ever before. First, our highly sexualized media has made monogamy almost a sin and secondly, texting grows intimacy...
View ArticleFOR SINGLES: What to Do When Your Date Disappears?
We’ve all been there. A few nice dates that amount to a budding relationship and then, for no apparent reason, your date goes off radio. No texts. No calls. No emails. In these times of high-speed...
View ArticleFOR COUPLES: Three Ways to Turn an Argument Into a Love Fest
Let’s face it, conflict is the worst part of committed love. But the road to security is paved with ruptures followed by repairs. It is in the repair process where we see each other’s tender spots,...
View ArticleFOR MEN: Real Men Hate the Word Love
Have you ever noticed that I talk about relationships all day long and I only rarely mention love? And when I do, it is usually to caution that it is a delusion intertwined with sexual attraction. Or,...
View ArticleFOR COUPLES: Expressing the “F” word: Feelings
While some people seem to express emotions easily, most people have to learn. Having emotional language skills is crucial to not only the relationships we have with others, but also the relationship we...
View ArticleFOR WOMEN: Why Men Stray And How to Prevent Cheating
It is estimated that 65% of divorces occur because of an extra martial affair. And, despite the sexual revolution and the reduction of the “double standard,” more men still cheat than women. Now...
View ArticleHow to Criticize and be Heard
There it is. That giant silence between you and your partner. You know you want to tell him what’s bugging you. But will he tune you out, respond with a wall of defenses, or might you actually be...
View ArticleHow Do You Respond To Your Spouse?
I like to say that relationships are more often about the elephant in the living room than the tiger in the bedroom. That elephant can be ignored all day long, but he’s still in the living room. And...
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